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April 26th, 2008 at 07:56 pm

Price & change car insurance policy

Price & change cell phone service

Sell the truck, remove insurance,
return tags, refund on one year of
registration fees

Switch DS health insurance (August)

Cancel house insurances

Cancel electricity in my name

Cancel cable, phone, internet service

Hold a yard sale

Start to move items to Container for
storage until apartment is ready

List everyone I have to notify of my
change of address

I think thats everything! But having this list to refer back to will help and I can add to it as I go along.

My ex is putting pressure on me to vacate 5 days before settlement. No Way! If I do that he could take possession and then not settle. I have little trust in his doing the right thing. He has paid child support and the house maintenance payment but only after his lawyer warned him (he didn't pay at first) it would come out of his check or he might go to jail and since he considers that humiliating he pays each month. Usually late, but he pays. The child support ends in July. He has not paid toward his 1/2 of house repairs as agreed in the divorce or other things agreed to in the divorce. I could take him to court but its not worth the hassle since it should all end at the end of this month. I will definitely be celebrating this final step. I won't have to have anything to do with him except for DS. events. I will finally be free of him. I've tried to be positive but every time he calls he tries to argue. I've had to practice assertiveness training more times than I can count. I refuse to live the last 30+ years of my life in a constant state of warfare.

3 Responses to “Lists of Things to Do”

  1. Tim Says:

    Don't forget to change or cancel any joint credit cards, and make sure you remove him as the beneficiary from any insurance policies or retirement plans you may have!

  2. klbb90 Says:

    Thanks, Tim!

  3. managinglife Says:

    Congratulations on your new positive life! You are on your way to being in control of your own happiness and life's destiny!!!!

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